Answer: Too much of anything is NOT good. Addictions ruin
relationships, PERIOD. It all seems like fun and games but when a person is
addicted to anything it not only affects them, but it directly affects their relationships.
I know people who are addicted to sex. Some people say “oh that’s a good addiction”,
well wait til you get with a sex addict…..oh how pleasurable things change
quickly.
The same with video games, Candy Crush and other things with bright
lights, animation, and/or fantasy; these addictions capture the users mind and
literally sends them into a trance. They become unresponsive, (try talking to someone while they are in the middle of a game)……you’d be better off talking to a brick wall and
getting it to respond back to you. Some become agitated by normal things….someone’s voice,
traffic (because it’s hindering their ability to play their game), work
(becomes a hindrance), people (become a distraction) and so many other normal
day to day things turn into something negative; causing the addict to view
everything contrary to their addiction as a hindrance.
Let's not leave off social media addiction- its an addiction to fantasy as well. For example: how glamorous other's portray their "wonderful" lives to be, (which is the Fantasy part), Drama, what so & so is doing, and Approval how can I make myself look better to other's!! Do you really think a relationship can stand when one person or both is addicted to drama, things that aren't real, and longing to be accepted? FAIL!!
The same with video games, Candy Crush and other things with bright
lights, animation, and/or fantasy; these addictions capture the users mind and
literally sends them into a trance. They become unresponsive, (try talking to someone while they are in the middle of a game)……you’d be better off talking to a brick wall and
getting it to respond back to you. Some become agitated by normal things….someone’s voice,
traffic (because it’s hindering their ability to play their game), work
(becomes a hindrance), people (become a distraction) and so many other normal
day to day things turn into something negative; causing the addict to view
everything contrary to their addiction as a hindrance.Let's not leave off social media addiction- its an addiction to fantasy as well. For example: how glamorous other's portray their "wonderful" lives to be, (which is the Fantasy part), Drama, what so & so is doing, and Approval how can I make myself look better to other's!! Do you really think a relationship can stand when one person or both is addicted to drama, things that aren't real, and longing to be accepted? FAIL!!
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Great post!
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