Is He Gay, Married, A Liar...

Question: What do you do when you suspect the guy you're dating is on the down low or living a double life?

Answer: I am an advocate for a woman’s intuition. Hunni this is an easy one, NO ONE DESERVES THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT in 2013, people just lie for NO REASON. I'm not bitter, upset, negative or anything else just in tune with the times. When you sense signs of homosexuality, a wife, baby momma, misrepresentation etc make a mental note and act accordingly. Don’t play the fool and start having unprotected sex or sex in general, believing lies, forgetting to do the math, 1 +1 is always 2, not 5, 10 ,or 22. It’s 2, it’s simple, it’s what you see, it’s what you get. 

Pay attention to red flags you can’t afford to go color blind. If he’s more concerned about his looks than you…….. There is a problem! He may not be gay but his priorities are really clear, HIMSELF! If he can’t talk on the phone at night, you can’t come over to his house, or if he always calls you when he’s in the car, a woman OR man is in his house: point, blank, and every period you can find in America! If he says I am going to call you, text you, contact you and doesn’t more often than he does…. he lies. Once or twice is reasonable, but repetitively girl he’s a liar. He likes to tell you what you want to hear to keep you going but has zero intentions on following through; he just knows what a woman wants to hear Chile and werks it to his advantage.

Be easy, play it cool, and most importantly do not make him your main priority. If you like him around keep him until you get “concrete evidence” if that’s what you are waiting on; your confirmation. But when intuition knocks you’d be a fool not to answer! 

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